The Black-and-White Thinking Christian Book Now Published

You might be a black-and-white thinker if you think concretely, if emotions are difficult to grasp, if you struggle with compassion or empathy, if you are a perfectionist, and if you think everything is all or nothing, right or wrong, …

The Black & White Thinking Quiz

Are you a Black-and-White Thinker? Take the quiz and read the results below. This quiz is taken from the book, The Black-and-White Thinking Christian. This is not a clinical quiz, but only a helpful guide that is in a continuous …

Bad Advice From Well-Meaning Christians: Part 3 – God Wants You To Be Happy

This November, 2019, my wife and I will be married for 23 years. I would say a large portion of our marriage has been very positive, but there have been some struggles that required us to do some maneuvering and …

Our Black-and-White Thinking God

Working through the Black & White Series has been a lot of fun.  As a matter of fact, it has been the most read blog series I’ve written to date.  Why is this the case? I think it’s because so …

Bad Advice From Well-Meaning Christians: Part 2 – Forgive Yourself

We all need help. If we are humble enough, we will ask for it.  Who we turn to for advice is important since following their advice may lead us on a rewarding path. But it also may lead us on …

Foundations’ Top 10 Posts of 2018

It’s been a pleasure writing this blog the past year.  I’ve been encouraged by the growth of the blog  as we have doubled the amount of views from 2017.  Our views went from 7100 to over 15,000!  Or to put …

3 Ways to Communicate Better with Your Spouse

Marriage counseling can be one of the most difficult and rewarding experiences in the office.  Many couples know they can get better, but they have a hard time resolving conflicts and becoming closer because they can’t communicate.  On the surface, …